Valentine's Day 2009

Kevin & I went to Columbia with Courtney, Tim, Jeff, & Stephanie for Valentine's Day. We took 2 cars, 1 for the boys and 1 for the girls. How romantic for V-Day?

Our first stop was the Candy Factory. We picked up a pound of the best, most wonderful, chocolatiest (I don't know if that is really a word), sweetest, juiciest, dripping down your hand so good, homemade CHOCOLATE COVERED STRAWBERRIES! If you have never had these before, you are missing out! They are only made on holidays and to die for! I have NEVER had better chocolate! And coming from a chocoholic, that is REALLY saying something!

Our next stop was Shakespeare's Pizza! Homemade, fresh dough, oh SO GOOD! The boys and Stephanie had a beer. And after having a baby, Steph was ready for her beer! Well ladies, please do NOT think you are OK to drive after being sober for a year and only having just 1 beer! We almost DIED! That girl really didn't know where the curb of the road was. I thought she was going to blow out a tire! Anyway, since we were running late by this point to get to the MU basketball game, we all piled into one car.

This last picutre is Jeff. He is in the very back of the trailblazer with the stroller! He was trying to find another beer out of the cooler, but poor guy, they were all gone! He got pretty beat up sitting way back there and his wife driving! We all felt a little sorry for him!

After the game, we went to Harpos! Afternoon snacks, and cold drinks does the body good!

For dinner we went to the local brewery. Flat Branch, I think, really can't remember now. The food was good, but the boys said the beers were a little different! After dinner we went to the Penguin bar (a piano bar). VERY FUN! Live music and drinks, how much better does it get! All in all it was a great weekend and a great way to avoid homework!

This is my new favorite picture of us! My friends say I look better and better the more I drink! What do you think?

YIKES!!!!

Well, the first week of school wasn't too bad, but the switch to day shift the next week....was a true KILLER! Getting up at O-dark thirty (4:30 to be exact) and leaving at 5:30 really sucks! Then when the roads were slick, I left my house at 5 and arrived at work by 6:30. And to top it all off....I get to park off site and ride the bus to the hospital! This really sucks! There are times when you have to wait 5-15 minutes for the bus, then ride in this short bus to or from the hospital. And if you need to go to human resources for anything....you have to ride a different bus to the Hallmark building! You can get there in no time, it is around the corner at crown center, but you have to wait 30 minutes or longer for a bus to come and take you back to the hospital! I would rather just drive and risk losing my car in the parking garage, than riding that bus!

School is going OK. Last week, I learned about Genetics, Post-term deliveries, birth injuries, the respiratory system, and cardiovascular system, Cord gas analysis, and Persistent Pulmonary Hypertension.

This week, I am going to learn about physical assessment of the newborn at deliveries (thank god I have been doing that for a while now), gestational age exams, apgar scores, AGA/SGA/LGA infants, thermoregulation, and fetal circulation (in-utero vs. once the cord is clamped)! Can you believe this is all for just one week!?!?!?!

As for the family, Kevin is checking into heating & air-condition units for the house. We are debating on whether or not to build new, or just keep sinking $$$ in this house. He is so sintemental (don't know if this is spelled correctly...sorry) it makes me sick! He remembers all the fun times he had as a kid here, that he doesn't want to rebuild. His mom is the one that says to go for it. I am a little shocked bacause this was her parents house. I think she sees how much it will cost to make it up to par with what we truly want. Kevin wants to do a little at a time, and only do what we can afford. I keep thinking that if we do that, we will never get ahead and by the time we finish what needs to be done RIGHT NOW, we will have to start over and replace what we have already replaced! Do you see the never ending saga?

On the other hand, I am so busy with school and stressed about how it could ever be possible to keep up with this crap, that I am not thinking about the house. I feel like a horrible wife for not thinking about it, but I feel like there are too many fires to put out myself. I wish Kevin would just make the decision for me and just DO IT, without consulting me. He wants my opinion about EVERYTHING, and I truly don't care right now. I have told him to just make the decision and figure out how to pay for it himself. I know he will make the right decision. Right now I really don't CARE!

Oh, I am taking NRP on Friday at St. Mary's, See you there!

My first post of 2009!

I realize it has been a while since I have posted. I have been super busy with Christmas, then working the New Years holiday. Last week I worked Wed., Thurs., Fri., and Sat. night. Then...school started Monday!!!! AAAAAAK! This is going to be the most intense, most stressful, most horrible semester so far! I am taking neonatal assessment and neonatal pathophysiology. I will have weekly quizes, a presentation for each, 2 comprehensive exams for each, and 40 hours of clinical time. I have NO idea how in the world I am going to possibly have time for all of this! Fortunately, the info starts at the beginning of the baby (embryology, then antepartum, the fetus, delivery, the baby head-to-toe, and all anomalies imaginable)!

This week is about embroylogy and antepartum testing, electronic fetal monitoring, and blood flow while in utero and how it changes after delivery. YEAH! This is 3 units in one class...in one week! The info for the 2nd class has not been posted yet and the teacher says she will post it on Wednesday. Everything goes from Wednesday to Wednesday in the neonatal courses. Why can't we have a few more days the first week? God only knows!

Another BIG NEWS for me is..................I am switching to the DAY SHIFT! I think it will be easier with all of the school stuff I will have to do. My last night shifts are this Wed. & Thurs. the 14th & 15th. Then I will start working days on Monday the 19th. I am SCARED TO DEATH!!!! I didn't like working day shift during the week at St. Mary's, let alone the day shift in a unit that is 100 times busier! I have fretted and worried about this for weeks and I am to the point of puking. My stomach hurts daily and I can't even imagine getting up at 4:30 in the morning, to leave the house by 5:30 to get to work by 7AM! I really hope it turns out to be fine, and I am doing all this worrying for no good reason!

Hope all is well with you, and I will keep you posted on what I am learning and fretting about!
Ash

P.S. Kevin is doing great! He is so much happier working in Marshall than in the ghetto! I have a whole new husband! It's great!